I've been told a number of times to "get help". A couple of things.
1. I don't need help. Help is required when you are in distress and want something sorted.
2. Even if I should get "help", there is no help available to me. What people don't seem to understand is that there is no cure. A psychiatrist could not change me any more than they can genuinely make a homosexual straight. There is no medication, save for killing off my sex drive (which certainly would not be help). Indeed, the psychiatric definition (not the actual definition) only applies when it causes distress, or when someone is thinking or is actually acting on it. Because all a psychiatrist can treat is symptoms arising from it, depression etc. And since I can accept what I am, and I have no ill health due to it, they would be able to do anything anyway.
So "getting help" is not necessary, nor is it an option for me. Of course, anyone who feels distressed by it should get the help they need to feel better about themselves.
Tuesday, 27 July 2010
Saturday, 10 July 2010
The counter-productivity of child abuse
Ok, so I often think about how counter productive it is for antis to do some of the things they do. Though the other day I was thinking about child abuse being counter productive.
If people abuse children, that obviously alienates non-paedos. It's why paedophilia is so heavily outlawed in society. Which means that we have less freedom, and talk of that sort of thing is repressed. From what I've observed, a number of the people who abuse are the type who think the kid wants it. So if they didn't abuse children now, then there wouldn't be anything like the number of cases, and I think society would become more accepting. Now, if their own ideas are right (I don't think they are but they presumably do) then if this happened then it would allow children to be more exposed to sexual stuff and, again, if their theory was right, the children could say how much they wanted it and people would be more happy to allow it. You will always get the people who want to ban things purely because they are "ick" though. So idk. This is really just something I was wondering about on the bus. Just wondering if really, by abusing children, those doing it are limiting themselves and all of us.
I suppose it's possible though that a lot of them don't care about expanding their options and improving their own ability to speak out, and the rest of us who don't abuse. They may only care about the things they do. But I doubt it's the majority of cases. But then I really don't know.
If people abuse children, that obviously alienates non-paedos. It's why paedophilia is so heavily outlawed in society. Which means that we have less freedom, and talk of that sort of thing is repressed. From what I've observed, a number of the people who abuse are the type who think the kid wants it. So if they didn't abuse children now, then there wouldn't be anything like the number of cases, and I think society would become more accepting. Now, if their own ideas are right (I don't think they are but they presumably do) then if this happened then it would allow children to be more exposed to sexual stuff and, again, if their theory was right, the children could say how much they wanted it and people would be more happy to allow it. You will always get the people who want to ban things purely because they are "ick" though. So idk. This is really just something I was wondering about on the bus. Just wondering if really, by abusing children, those doing it are limiting themselves and all of us.
I suppose it's possible though that a lot of them don't care about expanding their options and improving their own ability to speak out, and the rest of us who don't abuse. They may only care about the things they do. But I doubt it's the majority of cases. But then I really don't know.
Thursday, 8 July 2010
I so damn happy tonight
Also, I need moar ideas of what to talk about, if anyone actually reads this Email me some questions or topics or some shiz. Email in my profile I think.
Sunday, 4 July 2010
So I saw some more CP
I'll admit I didn't pass up the opportunity to... yeah, but when that was over I can only really think about the poor girls. I don't like seeing that stuff on a personal level. Sexually it gets me going, but otherwise it makes me feel bad. I'm sure you know this from what I've already posted, I suppose I just kinda have to get it off my chest. I just wanna take them away from those awful people. :( But ofc I can't.
I think on it too much, this will probably make me somewhat depressy for a while.
I think on it too much, this will probably make me somewhat depressy for a while.